The big lesson was that looking exclusively externally will never get you to what you really want. It’s when you reflect internally to what is driving your behaviours and actions you become truly self-aware. Its then things change, and the magic happens.
I learned this from listening to the stories of high performers around the world and started to hear this was a common thread and my own evidence of transformation was convincing.
Throughout my journey, I discovered we are all a product of our positive & negative childhood experiences…
It’s the emotions from those events that drive us. It’s these feelings we are not paying attention to, that are delivering what we get.
We can either fight against them our entire life, and fall into unconscious cycles of self-sabotage and burnout that leads to unfulfilled dreams ...
Or harness that power to our advantage, to be calm within the storm, and make better decisions.
Make no mistake when we focus on our internal world…our external world shifts automatically.
Today I still have a successful real estate company I established in 2007 and with the help of a great team I only need to invest minimal hours per week …
I’m living the dream I always imagined, not trapped in doing too many roles in the business...
I learned to delegate and get to choose how much I do and don’t do and am free to pursue my true passion of helping business owners transition through the valleys on the ascent to their personal Everest.
I’m living proof, as business leaders, we don’t have to be at the mercy of the next looming storm, economic downturn, global crisis or recession…
And can get back in control of our vision to achieve the financial freedom which provides abundance for our loved ones.
My framework of helping others evolve centres around the foundational block of personal leadership. Self-reflection leads to self-awareness. When you understand yourself at depth the by product is we understand the people around us better and this creates connections that take us to our desired outcomes.
I have developed the skill to help people focus on these areas which have the biggest impact on what they say that want, but yet blind to it.
When I am not pursuing my purpose of helping other business leaders evolve themselves to who they need to become and veraciously learning about new ways of answering my burning question of “why don’t we get what we say we want”
I’m relaxing with my family and friends and being grateful for what I got.
My wife Tami, daughters Olivia and Claudia are the reasons I get inspired each day to make a difference to their lives and the lives of the people around us.